I know it has been a long long time since I updated you all. A lot have happened in the past few months. And sometimes, I just prefer things to be kept to myself. That's why I didn't not post it up here.
After going through all the ups and downs, I have learned a lot of things that I wouldn't have understood before this. We learn from our mistakes, we learn when we fall, we learn when it hurts. And after every heart break, we grow a little smarter, a little wiser, a little stronger.
I learned that everything happens for a reason. A bad thing prepares us for the worse, the worse prepares us for the worst.
I learned that there is no such thing at my-kind-of-guy/girl. You will never know how much you can love that person until give yourself a chance to love him or her.
I learned that there is no dream that is too big to be achieved. If you have a dream, reach out for it. Do not give in to pressure from peers or even your family. You yourself know what you want most in life.
I learned to be fearless (or at least try to act as though I'm not afraid of anything and try to overcome it). Things that don't kill you make you stronger. And always ask yourself when you're held back by fear, 'What would I do if I weren't afraid?'
I learned to take responsibility for my own action. Sometimes, there are people out there who love to care about things that are totally none of their business and it's annoying. I am grateful for the friendly advices that I get from the people who care about me. But when they start to interfere with my personal life, then that's too much. I am sorry if I offended anyone, but.. I take responsibility for my own action okay? :)
I realize that the people whom I care most care about me too, so I am gonna love them more. :)
Monday, November 8, 2010
Posted by Lim Kai Shin at 3:19 PM